Abuse Victim General Notes
This section contains general notes and pointers for victims of abuse, mostly child sexual abuse, but much of what's here will apply to other abuse as well. There are only a few notes and pointers at the moment, with more coming.
You are not guilty. The abuser is.
It's not your fault.
Not fighting the abuse does not make you guilty of anything.
It does not have to continue.
They are not showing you how much they love you.
Abusers are sick and need help.
Telling on an abuser is good for them. It gets them the help they need.
If someone does something that makes you uncomfortable, they are probably doing something wrong.
I will be adding more here soon and will eventually be categorizing everything.